The Dominant Wife Rulebook

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Well one night, Dave heard something down the hall. he got up to investigate. When he came up to his daughters door, her heard some whispers and his daughter giggling. Dave thought, That's weird, we didn't plan on having any sleepovers tonight. then he peeked in the door. There was his daughter siting on the bed with her boyfriend. Dave hit the roof, her barged into her room and screamed at her boyfriend, get out, get out now!! Jen's boyfriend ran to the window and jumped out, running across the lawn to the road. Then he looked over and saw, of all people his sister in law. Hi honey, he looked over at her sister. Oh hi I thought you were out of town. Good to see you. His wife looked at them both and it was clear they weren't the best of friends but they tolerated each other.

Some of our rules include such things as the area of decision making. Once Kathy has asked Gary for his input, and genuinely considers his position she will make a decision that she feels is best for our marriage and family. Once she has made her decision, Gary is expected to not only accept her decision, but to really “embrace” the decision. Once she makes a decision she does not allow complaining, whining or rehashing it. If he violates that rule he is generally harshly spanked with a paddle or cane. another of our rules is that if Gary ever curses at Kathy, speaks disrespectfully to her, walks away in a huff, etc., Kathy generally would wash his mouth out with soap and then rather severely spank him. A third rule is related to finances. Kathy is much better at financial management than Gary. She gives him a small allowance each week, and if he runs out of money he is to come to her and ask for additional funds. If he ever buys something outside of his allowance by using a credit or debit card without first getting her prior approval, he is generally spanked quite severely. Another rule is in the area of housework. Gary is responsible for most of the household chores, including laundry, dusting, vacuuming, washing the floors, etc. If he does not complete his chores on time or in the manner Kathy expects she will typically ask him for an explanation and then dole out punishment if necessary. All of our rules were developed together and we both agreed on the consequences if the rule is broken. Many people enjoy giving up control to their Dom as they appreciate instructions and boundaries in bed. The Dom takes full responsibility for how good or bad the sex is — the sub’s only job is to do what the Dom tells them. Consent is the Golden Rule when it comes to being a Dom. That should go without saying, but it’s important to emphasize it here as D/s sex tends to involve more ‘ blurred lines’ than vanilla sex.

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Ropes and other restraints, in particular, can be very dangerous as they can restrict your blood circulation if used incorrectly. Before you try and use any BDSM gear, do your research. Maybe I should give my sister-in-law a call and see what she can do, after all she's a shrink. But no I cant do that, we hate each other, I couldn't stand having her know about this.

Always establish a safe word before you begin any scene. This is generally a good idea with all kinds of BDSM sex.Conclusion — I can see no reason for Alice to be permitted to cum anymore. This will mean no nasty mess to clean up and no lowering of submissive standards due to her getting sexual release. Knowing that she will not be orgasming allows her to focus more on my pleasure.

Imagine sex was like this: you get to do exactly what you want, when you want, at all times. You tell your partner what you want them to do, or what you’re going to do to them, and they willingly oblige. You’re in total control and all-powerful. You get to use your partner exclusively for your own pleasure, and they worship you for it. During a recent long session of playing about with her erect clitty and not permitting her to cum, I asked myself — what exactly is the point of male ejaculation when there is no longer any need for reproduction?

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Good sex is all about pushing the boundaries. When we play the Dom, we enter a place where we have permission to behave in ways that we’re not allowed to usually behave due to societal norms. Experiment with different dominant sex positions and find a couple that you and your sub enjoy. 11. Know You’re Not Really in Charge As a wife-led marriage, it’s all about what I want and what I wanted was something new and fun. That’s exactly what I did. A wife’s FLR rules You’ll need to talk to your partner about how you’re going to carry out those power roles in your everyday life and set out expectations. You can’t completely deprive your sub of agency or power, so you might have to ‘tone down’ the roles you usually play in the bedroom. All bank accounts and credit cards will be in my name only. You will get a weekly allowance that I will determine. You must get permission for all other expenditures.

After each female ejaculation i must consume my ejaculate unless she has another deviant use for it to humiliate me with it. Jen and her mother got home, was Jen's mother ever angry. "Wait tell your father gets home tonight, I will teach him the meaning of suffering after what I saw tonight. Whatever power dynamics you’re acting out in bed, remember that you’re still just a co-author of that story. Be as aware of your sub as you are of yourself. I often keep her naked at home because of this, or at least in a tiny skirt without panties or her skirt pinned up at the front. Availablity and fun is the key. Alice thinks I’m being overly tough but accepted my new ruling after I explained my reasons and how it’s something so very important to me. After the first weeks, she reports no major problems aside from a small residual frustration and longing, which is to be expected.The same holds true for Doms. A Dom might feel out of control in their life due to a demanding job, an overbearing boss, and other pressures of everyday life. This might be why they thrive off of the opportunity to feel like they’re in control in bed. It Provides Boundaries for the Sub